I've tried (and I think succeeded) in not doing anything that my STBXW could use as justification for walking out. (Tomorrow night will be a HUGE test!!!)
It hasn't always been easy, either. I truly would REALLY like to let her know what I feel.
But, like I said, I think that would just cement in her own mind that she made the right choice. She may think that already, I don't know, but I don't want to help her out by giving her ammo.
My hope for her is to be rocking in her chair when she is 75, thinking about her past, and realizing that maybe it wasn't such a good move she made after all.
Just my opinion, but thought I would throw it out there.
Take care, Jackie. I know how tough this day is on you.
