I was in the Army as a JAG Corps officer female (don't get me started with the nick names we had, but one woman suggested the name of our softball team be the "jagoffs" and never understood why she got outvoted...) And the hat you are referring to, I think is going out the wayside, thank GOD.
Taping her? His L says it's fine but what's confusing to some people is forgetting that fib is not the government and this is not a criminal trial where rules of evidence are the strictest. As for not letting her know, first of all she cannot get an "edited" tape admitted but rather than getting bogged down in the legalities of it, focus on the issue of deterrence, and triggers. What I hear you saying FIB is that you think it would trigger an escalation of some sort on her end, and since we ALL agree she is in her own galaxy now, it makes sense to keep your cards to your chest. (But I would love to see her face if you played some of her craziness out loud for her...Oh, my older sister did that once 40 years ago after my dad had an outburst and she played it out for all of us to hear what we had just heard. My dad was sooo mortified. It deeply troubled him. But she got grounded...so go figure...)
FIB, keep your helmet on and keep ducking. I'd put a happy face here but I'm not sure how. And fwiw, I agree with you about the DB facebook thing. Except for getting in touch with someone privately, which they don't allow here, why do it? Seems risky to me and redundant. Plus I need the privacy this place provides. Am I missing something?
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