About your H and his talking with your son.

I saw my h do this for awhile. H does not have any male friends and he has nobody to talk to except ow. I have no clue how much h talks to ow at all but he and s17 were pretty close. H has never discussed ow to S18 not once. There talks from what I gather are just casual.

All of that stopped in December.

They have a need to connect to someone in the family that they feel less threatened by.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19