Hi KB, Just read your whole sitch, and sorry you are going through it, but I am in a very similar sitch. W moved out in October, kids shuttled back & forth until beginning of January where I decided that it was to disruptive to the kids to be going back & forth, so W & I started going back & forth. It's a roller coaster, don't know where or how it will end up, but I agree with others who say don't give up hope. Feelings change, they can change again. MLC, Hormones, Peri-menopause, or just plain old confusion - who knows what the reason is, but as long as one partner keeps hope alive, the marriage is not over.
