Had a rough week myself, but I can't imagine how you feel. Putting the details aside - the legal stuff aside - the hardest part of ending any R is wondering how the positive feelings we started with can turn into a nightmare. We trust in someone else who we think will always be there, make decisions that we think we will see the fruit of in years to come and just that things will turn out so differently. You have been strong, I can read that,but I just wanted to acknowledge your fears and betrayal. No wisdom here, just plain old validation. I think we can easily get caught up in the details and forget what we really want. We react rather than think. I know you feel unprotected in more ways than one - what do you really need to keep yourself feeling safe? Think about it before talking and making decisions.
