Hmmm..........my h has not had one drop of alcohol in front of us since July of last year.

The thing about this mlc is that while I do not approve of what h is doing, the kids will tell you that it is so peaceful at home. It was also very loving and peaceful before he had the a. And when I think about it, I can talk to my friends at any time of the day or night, turn on/off my computer anytime I want, watch what I want...........of course I watch very little tv but you get my drift.

Don't get me wrong, this lifestyle is not something I approve but it has allowed me to do some things I would not normally do when h was here.

Flicka--insurance should not keep someone close to them. I know in my state, you can make up to 43k and still get on the state health plan. There are several to choose from and it is the same plans I have seen that a variety of companies offer.

The one thing that will help you move forward is to release the anger and forgive.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19