Jackie,

A book that you might want him to read or suggest to him to read is the 5 LL's. In there he could gain some insight as to what this could be. Also there is a chapter headed LOVE IS A CHOICE. Maybe that kind of a thing would be good for him to know. I know that in my sit my W still thinks love is a feeling not a choice. I know better. Becuase I chose to love her even when she was being evil . Anyway that would be my suggestion.

Lee