Blew it day four of NC! Found out at work he had taken his ring off - he has done that before and knows I don't like it because everyone asks questions and I don't like living in a fish bowl. REad more about it in my thread.
I realized later that it probably was a test. The first thought I had was the part of DR book where she says, believe nothing you hear, and 1/2 of what you see. Calmed me down. Funny that someone quoted it here today after all. Must be reading my mind or able to know we all need to hear.
I am still very upset by the day. Probably more angry at myself for reacting - but there is more going on in my life and I don't need this from someone I am supposed to be able to depend on.