I'm still reading this thread with mixed thoughts about the whole issue. I have absolutely no interest in dating anyone other than my W at the moment and I'm not going to pretend I am just to make her jealous. I will however be socialising a lot more in my effort to GAL. Some of my close friends are women. Some of whom my W was always convinced were interested in being more than just 'friends' with me. While we were together I made a concious effort not to see so much of these friends but I see no reason to restrict myself like that any more. I'm seeing one of them tomorrow night but among other friends. I have no romantic feelings at all for this woman but my W was convinced she had them for me. Now, if my W reacts to me going out with this friend it will confirm to me that she still has some feelings for me. I don't have to stray or do anything untoward. The fact is, I could never handle the guilt of being with another woman when I still love and honour my W and my M. It is an interesting subject though.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.