I think W still goes to MC with me to drop smaller bombs as there is someone else in the room...not sure I have been reaching out to more friends and they been great in helping me by just listening to me talk on and on... I definitely will let W do the talking and explaining to the kids about her new life with OM and leaving...I'll be here for them to lean on as W is spending less and less time with them. Very surprised she doesn't think she needs to see them often...this is not the same person I knew a few weeks ago who would never want to miss being with her kids...