If you have ever spoken with ford..and I have..you would know that he went through a terrible time at one point, like all of us. You would know that he is a warm, funny guy and with a sense of humor (perhaps salty) as Bill described. He is supportive and as many women here have their female supports, ford has been one of my 'givers of strength'.
As Bill said above, ford usually calls it as he sees it...short..brief...humorous...and most times, ON THE MONEY. Was the post crass. Yes. Should he be banned? No.
Now..in order to make clear the line that you don't know a man until you walk in his shoes, Bill was dead on. ford is going through difficult times right now.
Sanction, yes. Ban...no. I respectfully request that he be reinstated.
To others here re: me. Without lying nor trying to make me be Mr. Wonderful, my W has nothing left but to cause pain and anger and start fights everyday. -I leave her alone -I do positive things for her...even cleaned her windshield off the other day. It is returned with acid and rhetoric
As you can see, it seems to have picked up over the last few weeks. I'm not sure why. Am I moving on better? Did she get dumped? Can she see me happy now? Or has SHE moved on and she just wants out and is trying to get me to leave? Dunno.
I'm just tired of her being an emotional drain and there is nothing I can do about except stay strong and keep things moving along.
As for taping it..it is legal in the State of NY. I do it only for my own protection right now. For the first time in a while, I can easily say that my wife has a problem.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
