Thanks Steve and Sage,

Oh yeah, many of the tears were those of guilt. It is all or nothing to him, the world is black and white and he feels he has let us all down. I know he is confused and sad, I just don't know if he will ever come to any conclusion about it.

Sage, my first piecing thread was Taking the Plunge and moving to Piecing.

My first ever thread was Does the Pain Stop? Under the id of JackieH, I changed the name to make it a bit harder for H to find me on here, wanted some type of outlet. It was back in November.

I think I'm to the point where I truly believe he needs to make decisions, his statements all contradict each other, I'm not the problem, but he wants a divorce? Just one day at a time, now.

Jackie