I am a WAW who came home to my marriage. FYI - no OM.
And there's the issue, no OM. When a OM is involved the WAS is able to distract from thoughts of the LBS with fantasies of the OM. Like I mentioned earlier, if there's no OM then don't try this.
Your H was lucky, 90% of the time there's an OM. I wish my wife took your path instead of being weak and using an OM (a married one at that) to leave.
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story