In Franks situation, I just feel that his Wife had her reasons, and if you had the opportunity to speak with her, you would hear a different side of the story....Just as if you spoke to any of our Spouses.
I have never condoned an affair, and until I came to this site and actually became friends with people who had committed adultery, I never fully understood why anyone would do it.
I still don't agree but I understand why people do the things they do.
I am not sure exactly what is different with Frank this time.
You have always had the ability to go home. You have the Ruby Slippers. Just click your heels three times and say "There's no place like home".
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.