Hugs MWG. I must add that I got much strength from your postings. I had no idea what patience was until I found your thread. I believe God lead me there.
I didn't always understand your thinking until I got closer to God which in turn has brought me closer to my h.
He is not home, but so much closer than 3 years ago. Should I have said h don't come and go as you please watch the kids elsewhere, you don't belong here as Irmac suggested would my h be as close to home today. I think NOT!
We all really only know our own situations, and must do what is best for us and us alone.
Thanks MWG for helping me find a better way. Sorry your thread got a little heated.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"