Hugs MWG. I must add that I got much strength from your postings. I had no idea what patience was until I found your thread. I believe God lead me there.

I didn't always understand your thinking until I got closer to God which in turn has brought me closer to my h.

He is not home, but so much closer than 3 years ago. Should I have said h don't come and go as you please watch the kids elsewhere, you don't belong here as Irmac suggested would my h be as close to home today. I think NOT!

We all really only know our own situations, and must do what is best for us and us alone.

Thanks MWG for helping me find a better way. Sorry your thread got a little heated.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"