Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
That's ALL good news, including your R with sd. REALLY REALLY IMPORTANT THAT YOU SHOW HER WHAT A MAN IS, or can be.

Sounds like Sd only has you. And you seem ready to see that this M restoration will take some real time if you were as selfish as you say. (Change, admitting fault and working on it to improve as a person, are things you can pass on to your children/boys if you step up the plate on this, regardless of what your w or M does...)

Like I posted, I've been here awhile, and reconciling has been worth it so far. But it takes more than you thought you had in you and you are never really "done" working on it, if you know what I mean. Yet, I hope and believe it'll yield more than you came to expect over the past few years too.

( j )


I know its worth whatever time I have to devote to it.

By the way when we were talking about leasing places she was VERY focused on 6 month leases! That has to be good!

Jeff

Last edited by Vdad; 01/30/09 10:33 PM.
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W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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