well I guess you did get it...the female perspective.
Actually PT may be very helpful now as well. I honestly didn't recall the prior A you had so that puts it in a diff light for me. Hey PT if you are reading this, what's your take on this now? I feel as if she was the first "victim" and they had not worked his A out at all, according to him and that does change things for me. Not all bad news.
I have to say from what she wrote in the email, I see pain all over the place. So yeah, she does care. And a lot of "Who am I if I married a guy who'd do this to me, and is it 'me' or him or what?" She is embarrassed by her actions which MAY be related to her need to know she's still attractive, but she is deeply wounded.
Dang,
I just ache for both of you. ( j )
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