DO you have four children and does she have them? What are their ages? Are the boys yours and not the teenage daughter? Why would you only take the boys? And what's up with saying she won't "buckle down and work", and... also what? Take care of the kids? And do the housework too? You say "she can't focus" and then you say she won't "buckle down and work" and I am unclear about why this surprises you.
( j )

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change