Your advice had been the advice I have needed to take the most. When you first told me about the anger I took it the wrong way and tried to punish W last year. So wrong.
And I know Alpha Male better than anyone. I WAS Alpha Male in the past. As one of my friends said years ago "You've always been someone who was ready to take the tiger by it's tail and pull".
Seriously. I have started 3 companies that were all successful with just my brain power. I have been dirt poor and well off.
And I have wallowed. Way way too long.
I'm trying to get a handle on focusing my anger in a good way. And expressing it.
I agree with Bworl - adultery is inexcusable. I agree with brandnewday that women and men who are weak will find their drug of choice - an affair, alcohol, whatever, to fill that empty space inside.
We all have our issues. And we all have the power to change.
