The Jealousy Button (men only)

[RobD70]

It's nice that this is being debated, there are pros and cons for sure. I am wondering what the women folk (especially former WAS) think about this?

I think of it like this, my wife is dating an OM but yet I'm still wanting her back and will to try to forgive her (IF she puts an effort in the M). Am I to expect she would act different if I had a OW? It not like I'm looking for a PA and yet my W is having a EA/PA right now. I don't even want an EA and plan on staying back enough to avoid it as much as possible. It could still happen but maybe that would be for the better. I have to look after me after all and so far the W doesn't seem interested. I bet a lot of people are in that boat as well.