I don't think it is about control at all....

It has to do more with emotional detachment, on their part.

They have learned to "cut off" from their emotions, and don't want any of the tender moments, or things that would actually remind them of their love for us to cloud their MLC vision.

Sex becomes that, just sex. Just a physical thing without any intimacy.


There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.