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I am NOT by any means saying that she was correct in her bad choices, but she was also pushed into this choice.



I'm ok with most of this, but I call BS on this line.

No one pushed her into anything. Just as no one pushed Frank to drink. We make our choices. Frank has to own his, and his wife sure as heck needs to own hers.

He has every right to be angry with her. And I'm sure she has some right to be angry with him too.

I think Frank has simply been getting at the fact that he has far too often suppressed his anger in situations where people have treated him wrongly. Seems to me that his Counselor is trying to help him see that he needs to FEEL what he feels and deal with it, rather than allowing it to fester and send him to alternate methods of dealing with the issues.


Bill


"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."