Yea that's why for me this is a last resort. I've known this forever but it wasn't an avenue I cared to go down until recently and only because I feel my M is close to an end. When my W first left I knew one day she would be back so I did all the 180s and waited it out. Today I don't have that confidence anymore so this is not only a last ditch effort but an opportunity to really move on. I would not suggest this to a newbie that's for sure.
If I thought waiting around a little longer and she'd be back again I would do that. I'm thinking too much damage has been done now so I'm not risking anything. The OW I'm talking to is actually a good catch so who knows, my W was a rebound after all.
This is supposedly what the W wanted to maybe it's time to give it to her. Like Steady, I wonder sometimes what it is I'm holding on to anyway?
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story