I never heard of _____'s book. What's the title. I can't find it on an internet search. Thanks.
Also is this the _____' book? - It only takes one to get the ball rolling-save your marriage on your own - by _________.
RobD70, my W has alot of great qualities. But as far as my M/R is concerned I'm unsure of what I'm really holding onto - our R has been less than good for a long time.
I think the only way we could get together is to have our old relationship die, then look at each other and feel a connection and desire to start over. The old baggage has to go away. I don't know if that will ever happen. But in my work on detachment I have to be honest and understand what it is I'm actually trying to hold onto.
If I figure out it's something other than feeling that love that trancends friends it will make it easier for me to detach.
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