I never heard of _____'s book. What's the title. I can't find it on an internet search. Thanks.

Also is this the _____' book? - It only takes one to get the ball rolling-save your marriage on your own - by _________.


RobD70, my W has alot of great qualities. But as far as my M/R is concerned I'm unsure of what I'm really holding onto - our R has been less than good for a long time.

I think the only way we could get together is to have our old relationship die, then look at each other and feel a connection and desire to start over. The old baggage has to go away. I don't know if that will ever happen. But in my work on detachment I have to be honest and understand what it is I'm actually trying to hold onto.

If I figure out it's something other than feeling that love that trancends friends it will make it easier for me to detach.

Last edited by Tia; 01/31/09 08:12 AM.

MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
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