I think your W is digging her grave. I was advised by my C and my L that 2 things you have to be careful for as a parent when they are looking to determine custody is allowing free access to the children with visits and calls, etc, and making decisions with the co-parent rather than on your own. I'm thinking she is kind of helping to build a case that you would be better as a primary guardian from the kind of stuff you are saying. What does your L say about that?
