I think if you can get thru this, things can get lighter for you two. HOW TO GET THERE?
What ideas do you have?
Ok , so you think the affairs opened your eyes? Ok fine go with that. It opened my eyes so now I am going after that passion, full speed ahead. But you treat her like a porcelain doll and are so afraid she is going to break? Show her your real passionate you , she wont break. Have fun with her and be silly and and strong. Everything that you are holding back she mot likely misses and even wants back.
I do think that my question? How to get there? Has been answered by S&A. Love you dearly Cinco, but yes you are getting in your own way. I loved his post.
About time S&A? What does it take to pull you out of the damn woodwork???
His advice is stellar and spot on. My H complaining to me and saying I am to blame for his unhappiness? Isnt a turn on. And yes my drive is different than MRS. CINCO.
BUT~ and a huge but.
( no pun intended... )
I loved what S&A put that you could have said instead. That would get me more motivated than saying .. Honey you still arent coming thru for me what is wrong woth you? KWIM.
PLEASE~ PLEASE, use that post to your advantage it is STELLAR. Get those damn books already. Or I will have to get out my whip I was talking about in my previous post? *< I am tapping my damn foot waiting for an answer!~!~ And Latinas are not famous for being patient. LOL~>*
Seriously hon , has anything you have been doing ? "working" ?
Lets try something new. ( I am trying something new too , being assertive and it is working.... )
