My thought here is that maybe instead of asking a lot of questions about your husbands day. When he gets home try just going up to him and give him a big hug and a kiss on the cheek and say hey how was your day. If he feels inclined to say oh well we did this and that and so forth. Sit and listen like it is very important to you. Look in his eyes. Make coments that let him know that you are listening but not trying to take over the convo.
If he says work was fine and doesn't seem to want to talk about it just drop it and let it go. Just Thought that I would throw in my 2 cents.
