My worst fears confirmed! Wife having EA/PA...

[Vdad]

Hey all,

So I have decided to move out into my own place. I wanted to include some emails from her concerning OM and get your take on my decision to detach going forward... (As of this AM by the way)

"Hi Paul.....how are you and Jenifer doing? I hope all and your darling girls doing? I hope all is well. What have you guys been up to? Nothing too exciting happening here in Vancouver. Pretty much being mom (which I love). Jeff and I are separating. It's been a pretty emotional few weeks for both of us.
Gerald and I are over. I guess it is for the best. I do wish him and his boys all the happiness in the world. He is a good person.
JusI realize everyone thought I was bad news for him, given my situation. I do want to clarify this, I was never playing with his emotions nor did I ever intend on hurting him. I was completllletely scincieWhat I felt for him was genuine 100%. In the end I was the one who got hurt. I guess that's what I get for playing with fire. I know I came across as a bit wild that weekend in Yakima, but that is not who I am. It was just a weekend away from kids and reality. For the most part I am a mommy and up until recently a dedicated wife for 14 years. When I found out that Jeff was having an affair it was devastating. Never in a million years would I have thought he would do something like that. We tried to work through it, but there were so many problems. Right about that time Gerald and I got in contact and it really surprised mme how quickly I connected with him. I mean I had not had feelings nor had been with another man besides my husband for over 14 years. I guess I was pretty volurableurable n.I am just a stupid woman. I'm not quit sure why I am explaning ining all of this to you....It just bothers me."
and... (to OM)

"Goodbye (to OM)

Just thought I'd make this easy for you. I wish you all the happiness in the world. In the words of Alley from the Notebook " I am a stupid woman" or at least have been."

Thought I would give you a look inside her mind. Ladies what is you take from this point on? Gentleman as well?

Jeff