Waiting for the Happily Ever After Part

[rjd5974]

You've already gotten some good advice on your latest predicament...I'll just reinforce it here.

What can you find in yourself that might lead your H to think you're grilling him or aren't sincere about his day? Do you ask him about his day right when he walks through the door? That could be two negatives...first off, when he's just getting home from work he is probably still stressed..and when you remind him about this by asking him about his day he might feel grilled. Secondly, he is in a negative mood..so anything you might say is more likely to sound insincere.

If this is the case, when is he more relaxed? Just before bed maybe, when you're in the quiet of your own bed? I guess I'm just trying to figure out if there's a way you could change the time you ask him about his day, if you usually ask him at a stressful time for him.

As far as this person calling him...don't let that eat at you. I doubt it's an OW. If he was seeing an OW would he be so brazen as to have her calling his home when his wife was there? That just doesn't fit the pattern of an affair in the least bit. Even if he went to a different room with the call, it doesn't mean there is anything going on. I'm not suggesting you roll along blindly..you should definitely keep your eyes open, but don't let this get to you and negatively affect your interactions with him right now. As I said, if there was an OW, he'd have to have a big pair of nads to have her call his home when his W would probably answer...so let it slide.