Trying to let go........with love!

[sandycay]

Allow me to clarify my cake eating take. I know I quoted a whole paragraph on the subject but I should have picked out the statement where the S said dad doesn't want you to move on. That's cake eating thinking. He wants to move along, do his own thing and then he wants SC and her S to clean up some dirty work and she is nice and kind and takes great care of her husband and I just think he needs to see how it will look when she's not there backing him up every step of the way. The rest was all positive. It was very sweet that he bought her a phone... he wants to keep in touch.

I also didn't mean H and S shouldn't talk and have a relationship with H but H shouldn't tell S about his escapades at any age. I don't think it's appropriate but that's just me.

SC - I know I explained this on the phone last night with you but I felt I needed to clarify my position here.


PS: Are you sure baby doesn't need a baby sitter? It's awfully cold where your going!!! I promise I won't lose her.