Hi Hope, I swear our stories are so parallell. I too remember not being able to sleep. I had terrible bags under my eyes. Just remember time does help.
As far as the golf buddy I'm not sure I would mention it to him. First of all it's best not to get too many people involved. Second of all you really don't know who you can trust not to run and tell your H everything you confide in them, especially if it is the WAS's friend. Thirdly, if this friend does take your side and tris to "talk" some sense into your H, H will only resent you and the friend.
If you have a good friend you can vent to, that's the best thing to do. I had a couple of friends who were angels to me and I don't know what I would have done without them.
I'm not saying not to "out" you H, but be very careful who you talk to. Some people are very supportative and concerned, but others just like the "gossip".
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
