I want to add that yes, there is the issue about using another person to make a WAS jealous. That is a potential problem so I am brainstorming way to pull this off.
So far I'm plan on just talking the OW up to get the rumor mill going but playing it cool with the reality. I will do maybe a lunch date or go for drinks once or twice and call/txt/email but most likely draw the line there. The OW I'm working on is on a dating site anyway so I'm sure she'll have plenty of other guys to talk to if I need to pull back. I doubt she'll be too into me anyway since I'm not going all gung-ho. It should be relativity safe for now.
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story