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Replace "wife" with "husband" and "she" with "he," then that's the mentality you are adopting. If you are married and want to date then push for the D. But why would you want to play a "game" that has real consequences for lot's of people because of your vendetta?
You can have a great M either with your current W or in the future with someone else. Be strong ,wise, honorable and compassionate. Lead by your example, if she doesn't see your character shining thru then it then it's her issue. Have character - don't be one.
The way you all are describing dating it sounds like "little boy" behavior. She hurt me so I am going to pout and then hurt her back. Are we that needy that we have to jump out and find another woman to validate our manhood? This in no way excuses or dismisses the hurt by the way you are being treated by your W. You only control your actions. So do you want to follow her lead or be your own man?

Strength and Honor

Last edited by Tia; 01/31/09 10:04 AM.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.