I never said NOT too. I asked what would contacting him do for you? I'm not in your shoes, I don't know if talking to him is going to set you free or knock you back onto the roller coaster that everyone seems to hate.
If it is good for you, then you have your answer, if however it is bad for you...
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK