Thank you all for the encouragement. My problem, I think, is the constant interaction with my W. She still lives in the house, but we're just there as room mates, and that is what's killing me. I liken it to losing a loved one and then having to attend their wake every single day for months. There's no closure. My wounds keep getting reopened. I know that DBing says that time spent together is important and that it is easier to reconcile when the spouse lives in the house, but I just don't see that happening. I see my W just being comfortable and happy with the newly limited relationship we have which is just one of freindly people sharing a space. I feel like if she's not interested in the marriage then she just needs to get going. Should I tell her how I feel? I just don't know how much longer I can go on like this. I need healing.
