I like your H's comment about not being out of the woods yet. He said YET! Meaning that one day you will be, but not right now.
As far as his stressful days go. Remember that actions speak louder than words. I never wanted to talk about my bad days either, I think its a guy thing. What I did like was when my W would set on my lap in the recliner and watch tv with me, or cuddle up with me on the couch or in bed. After a long day of work, I just wanted to relax. Those are the things that did it for me. Those things are what made me feel loved and/or appreciated.
Of course that is my love language. Your H's might be different. Try to speak his language when he comes home and is stressed out.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
