I want more post in this lol.

Here's a quote from Homer's book I mentioned earlier about dating:

"These methods work, and they work because of the low self-esteem of the wife. She values what she can’t have, and does not value or looks down on what she can have."

I think my W falls into that category.

One other thing I noticed it that it take about 2 weeks for the WAS to act out over this. I'm sure the effect is immediate but I think they probably try to avoid thinking about it at first or think it's not going to be a big deal. The 2 week mark must be where the breaking point is and they get scared.

When I went on my date it REALLY bothered the W even though she had completely written me off. She didn't want to hear about the date and was worried I would like the date more than her.

This is a great time to test this because V-day is in 2 weeks. I know if the W found out I'm dating it will kill her to know I spent V-day with a OW (even though I know she'll be with the OM but it might put a damper on her fun).

Now if I can just keep my head straight and not think about her I might be ok.


Me:38
W:40
Bomb/EA 03/08
Recon twice
1/09 W files for D
Story