I think my W is finally going to tell the kids about her living with OM, they think she is living with a girlfriend. This weekend will be real hard when she does tell them. I’m still surprised how quickly W is ready to throw away long term R for a brand new R of only a couple of months. My C told me to hang in there and take care of myself which I am trying. The session with him last night was very good for me. Her therapist is encouraging her to follow her heart no matter who else gets hurt in the process; didn’t encourage her to come to me even when she first started to fall in love with OM.
Our marriage counselor still encouraging both of us to work on M, he is very baffled by W’s actions. He’s wondering why she is running and she really hasn’t been able to answer that question yet. I’ll keep my head up as much as I can.
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!