I agree on how some things have to end or bottom out before they can be rebuilt. This is not going to be fun, mostly because I am seeing a very selfish side to her which is both unusual and frustrating. As much as I want to uphold my kid's mother I am going to have to be very firm on boundaries with the kid's. Jeez..moving in with a friend and ALL sleeping in one room?
Mom's out there: Is this rational in any way? She also keeps wanting to not seriously have to buckle down and work. She can't focus at all. I need the help on the income front temporarily but she won't jump in but wants this separate life. Frustrating.
I have a DB coach and my instinct is that we need to be apart for this to work... I think I need to be away from her and her shenanigans as much as she needs her freedom to become an individual.
Anyhow...I think I will step up my efforts to get a place and create a safe place for my boys...
Thoughts?
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
