Hey, my friend. Just caught up. Sorry - I was a bit wrapped up in my sitch.
Anyway, you threw a wrench into her plan. She was plodding along and you ruined it! I think she would have continued this way. Kinda sad, in a way, that she would be alright with that.
Life is too short. There should be more than plodding for everyone.
I hope you are ok. It will not all hit you until you tell the kids. When you do, I know you know to assure them of your love, that you still love their mom and that you will do whatever it takes to make it as easy as possible for them and that none of this is their fault.
Dear man, this all takes a lot of guts. But rest assured you hung in longer than most would have, you did everything you could, you acted with dignity and honor. And all of that matters.
