I know how you feel about boundaries. There are two specific things coming up that I am not going to let happen. I think the general rule is to be kind but firm and if backing off is working then keep it up.
I am at the point where my wife is already gone so my take may be a little different. I would love to pay the om a visit for you, he wouldn't have to worry about skiing anymore.(kidding of course.) It is frustrating I know. Keep praying and remember the back and forth of all this. It's like they can't let go all at once. Sometimes things are not as they seem in the MLC world to us rational folks.
