Hi SC, I hope you have a safe trip and a wonderful time.
I know exactly how your feel about the ow's comments to your children. I had the same sitch in my first M. Guess what? A woman that will do that, is eventually going to do things that your H IS going to notice, and not like. He will eventually compare her to you, and will see that you were the one with grace and dignity. Hang in there.
I also know how you fell about wanting to rip her head off. Don't blame you a bit. A tigress will do the same if you come between her and the cubs. The good thing is that your kids are old enough to know her for what she is doing. She is going to hang herself, given time.
Have fun playing in the snow. I'm thinking about you!
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
