I have a Question for everyone,

My Wife just left me a message thanking me for giving our dog a bath etc. but she also told me that she is going sking this weekend and is taking our dog. She didn't say with who but... the only place she goes sking for the weekend is the OM resort condo.

My plan is not to acknowlege this and I plan on not answering her phone calls or texts if in fact she does call etc. I am looking at this as an opportunity to re-set the bounderies and not reward bad behaviour. Three weeks ago I dropped the ball and let her off the hook when she canceled our ski outing because she had a hangover after skiing at OM resort. She may think in some twisted way that I might think it is ok because of how I handled the last situation.

I don't know why she feels that she has to tell me this time she didn't tell me were she went last weekend.

My question is any suggestions on how to respond?

Jeff


ME 44
W 32
M 5 T 6

no kids

June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me

Summer 08 EA
31/10/08 Confirmed PA