Trapt is right keep busy and don't dwell (it's hard to do at first)and please please don't snoop or spy it will only drive you crazy. I did once and found an e-mail I can't get out of my head. Be consistantly positive, even if you feel like crap. If you are consistant she will notice.
Jeff
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me