Guys awhile back my xh, in my opinion, really fell for this young girl he worked with, she broke it off when she found out he was lying to impress her. He hasnt gotten over her and I think maybe alot of his anger is from that. It breaks my heart to think so, I so wish GOD would remove the pain I feel from things like this. I tell myself its only been over 4 months now, but I wont to be over him so bad,,,but only if thats what GOD wants. I do know that I have to completely let go before GOD can work in my life, whether it be with my xh or someone else or just plain by myself. Today my xh hurt me badly, I know he was angry, but I will never forget what he said. I did call him, and I left a message for him to call me back concerning his truck. I want to get my name off the title. Well I guess this really made him angry, because when I suggested this I also mentioned that they told me he was behind a couple payments. He now says, he NEVER wants to speak to me or see me again. He called my some horrible names and told me he was getting an epo. I dont know how this little thing set him off, after last night being so nice to me and telling me no one could compare to me. Guys all I want right now is for us to be friends for our sons sake. It breaks my heart. I truly didnt expect this reaction from him. I since learned also that today this lady that I mentioned earlier had spoken to him and they talked about painting a room in her house, my xh offered to paint for her, but I think she kinda blew it off. Not saying yes or no. Maybe he still has feelings for her and when I mentioned the truck it just set him off. Is it possible he is taking out his anger on me instead of her? I guess he has to unleash from somebody. What do you think?
