Hey native, Great news that your W is being more receptive!!!!

It's good to hear that you re-thought your last bad convo & didn't take it personally. Yep, we women can definately be a b**ch when it's that time of the month plus add a bad day into the mix!! Watch out!! I would actually tell my H when I was getting into that b**chy mood.

So you took a chance & broke the DB rules ..... huh .... Well, it appears to have worked for you. And that's what it's all about!! \:\) Finding what works. Like I said before, I think it was good for you to achknowledge, what you think is the issue. It shows you care, are willing to work on it, but are letting her disgest it all & come to you. This isn't something you can fix .... only help to, when she is ready. I think you have given her much to think about. And it's good she misses you. Maybe a few bricks have fallen down from her wall.

Your GAL sounds very positive!


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
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