"Trust holds me back. H, I don't trust that you won't leave me again."
This is huge for her Cinco. She was vulnerable with you. She is using not trusting you as a wall. It keeps her safe.
I have felt like this a lot. That feeling she is "holding" onto for dear life is *part* of what is keeping you 2 from feeling more connected?
I dunno , I do think you need to keep talking to her and even if it gets uncomfortable? She needs to know that she can be honest and you are going to keep trying and then be loving just like you were in the end of this convo.
I am excited for you. "
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We have to keep R-talking how else will we ever work through this? I don't feel comfortable with it either but it has more to do with knowing it will cause a fight than not wanting to talk about us."
