When you set a boundary, did you set a consequence for breaking the boundary?
Often, our boundaries are 'all or nothing'....but that seldom works. Our boundaries mean nothing because we don't enforce a consequence that is too big, or we end the relationship when there were really other options.
What kind of consequence could you give that would be liveable for you?
Brainstorm first....try to imagine the outcomes of each.
Hang in there.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
