It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[Kim07]

Sandy,

1st, i'd like to congratulate you & your son for a job well done in the 200IM! I'm a swim coach & I know that takes a lot of work & endurance on his part,,not to mention moms' work,

I really feel for you and understand completely what you're going thru. My H is also in the "travel" business with a whole lot of prestige. But my H is at the top of his game right now & thinks hes' God, even tho he denies that he has a big fat head, lol! He is such the narssisist not to mention shallow, but I still love him. The trust for me is no longer there, especially when he is out of town or the country on business. I find things or hear things later that don't make sense & make my mind reel. Been dealing with my sometimes overactive imagination as well, but have set some boundries so i'm no longer the doormat I use to be. Still working on how to be kind to him in the face of his obnoxious lies,,not doing so hot.

I would love to talk to you by e-mail, IM or cell sometime. Not sure if you know Joanie, she lives in WA, but that would be a way to get a hold of me since we can't discuss it here.

Keep up the good work, you are doing a lot better than you think!

Kim