LNMW, I think you are wrong; I think you must not listen to what your W says. Watch what she does.
Look how she has reinvolved you in her life. That is progress.
I hear love in your tone, but realize that six months is nothing in this situation. You may have to continue a year, two years, maybe even longer. You need to have consistently loving behavior, and i think you have.
But consider how long you were absent as well. To trust again, you need to be consistently available with consistently loving actions.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D